If you are lazy to bring your own handbag, then, don't bring it to a date.
If you are thinking that your bag is too heavy, then, don't bring a big bag with you.
Others will think that you are out with your gay-boy-friend, or that your boyfriend is sissy if he's carrying a handbag.
Please have mercy on this guy :).
Anyway, even if you don't have a partner now, this can always be your guideline in the future. Just remember, men have their pride too even if they don't want to admit it.