7 Apr 2012

Will you take her back?

Hey there!

I believe in dating with commitment, and not just for the sake of dating. So, when commitment is involved, I can't tolerate with people 'doing stuffs' behind their partner's back. Well, you know... that and such...

Anyway, I've asked a friend of mine (male) on his opinion regarding a 'storyline' I gave him...

" You are in a long distance relationship with a girl, but the girl shared a bedroom (if you know what I mean) with another guy occasionally (almost every day). Somehow, you've found out about that matter, and obviously you didn't like it. So, you've made her promise to stop doing it. She promised, but the 'room sharing' never actually stopped. She just managed to hide it further from you. Then, after a couple of years, you caught her again, red-handed. Will you forgive her then?"

My friend told me that he will take her back, since he love her so much. I've asked the same thing with a couple more friends (male), and their answers were pretty much the same.


I don't get it. What do you say?


6 comments:

tiara.dryden said...

For me, sharing a room doesn't necessarily means that they're doing stuff behind their (each) partner's back. But this is just from my point of view as a friend, in case one of them is my friend whom I knw so well. But maybe if my boyfriend is doing that, hmm... hahaha. I'll feel hurt

Winnie Irene said...

If it was me, I wont take her back. those incidents happen twice already. why settled for someone who's not worth for it? kan?

well, that's just my honest opinion. :)

Aemy Shamy said...

most guys will say yes, most girls will say no...from my point of view, i think men are forgiver.
i made stupid mistakes twice..it involved someone else (a guy), but i wasnt being unfaithful..it's just, wasnt honest with my bf. he's so mad, but he forgave me & thankfully we're still together now.
i always wonder, other guys would have dump me, be he forgave me & accepted me back.
he said, forgiveness isn't just because i make mistake, but because our relationship is much more valuable & he didn't want to ruin it just because a mistake..

Zalia said...

Winn: I supposed, I won't take him back... Well, that's the logic answer. However, in reality.... I did.... Hmmmmm.... I don't get it....

Aemy: Yeah. That's what I can conclude from me asking questions to a few people. You and Ifo are so good together. You shouldn't allow for trivial matters to separate the both of you.

san said...

hmmm a surprising answer from the males! :O I guess men are actually quite soft on the inside eventhough they appear tough on the outside!

Zalia said...

Apparently, they are quite forgiving of the girls they love. That shouldn't be an excuse for us girls though. Haha!